Big Changes

We're about a month and a half into 2012 and changes are running rampant.

It started out with the car mess right at the beginning that worked itself with a new car.

Then came basketball games for Noah. The first extra curricular we have found in which he has stayed happy and positive in throughout the entire course of the activity, even when he's not particularly talented in the sport. He has two more weeks and then his "Celebration Night" and he is actually worried about what he will do on Wednesday nights when he doesn't have basketball anymore. Little does he know that momma and daddy have something else planned for them that I think they will enjoy as well. Though I'm not big on overs scheduling kids, I do think they need to have some sort of extracurricular outside of school.

Now, the most recent change has been in the works for awhile and has finally come to fruition. Hubby has been very unhappy with his job for a very long time and has secured a new job. He will actually be doing the same job for a more secure company. Less money and more hassle for me trying to figure out both the budget changes associated with this company's payroll process and possible babysitting needs due to different work hours, but he is very happy about it so I must be too. It means cancelling our spring break trip, which makes everyone sad but I know it's the right thing to do. Hopefully in the long run, it will prove better for our family.

One thing that I thought was going to be settled by now seems to be less so. I knew it was too early to be excited about good things happening. It is my own fault for letting myself feel contented. I should know better by now. I really needed some closure that doesn't seem to be coming which is very frustrating.

The kids had a fun Valentine's Day at school. It is so much different than when we were in school. For us, we exchanged CARDS and then went home. For these kids, they came home with bags FILLED TO THE BRIM with candy, stickers, tattoos, pencils, erasers, and even other little trinkets as well. Noah's little non-girlfriend even gave home a box of chocolates, which made him sad since he hadn't brought her anything. For our part, we made homemade candy that Noah donated to the church bake sale this past Sunday. I didn't get to spend any time with my valentines since I worked both jobs and then had rehearsal until 10 for this weekend's performance but that's okay since the boys are going to the in-laws this weekend and Steve and I will have a chance to go out before the big performance on Saturday. We will count it as our late anniversary (which was in December) and late Valentine's meals all in one. I wonder if we will even find anything to talk about when it's just the two of us:)

2012 has been eventful so far. Almost scared to see what will happen in another month. Hubby will turn 40 so I guess that's a pretty big one, huh? I will enjoy teasing him that he's two years older than me...at last for two months until my birthday in May :)

Off to work. Then pick up kids and off to work again. And then....Full rehearsal with the symphony for Lord Of The Rings: Return Of The King tonight. Tomorrow we rehearse the entire score with the movie going and then opening night Friday, followed by Saturday performance with both parents and Hubby in attendance. Goose Bumps already.

It is so good to be a Music Geek!


Have a great day.

To be a Pre-Teen...A Gross Post and Rant

Yes, oldest is turning ten in a few months and seems that we are SLAMMING into our pre-teens with him. I have a feeling that although some of these traits are part of most pre-teens, I am thinking others may be distinctly "boy" issues.

For example....what is it about hygiene that becomes non-existent all of a sudden. As I was doing laundry a couple of weeks ago, I was sorting out my hot water items first. You know...undergarments. Because of my schedule, I generally only get to the laundry on weekends and then spend every Saturday and Sunday doing a marathon. By that point, everybody in the house is out of undergarments. So I usually expect at least two (sometimes three if there are a lot of towels) loads of this type. But I was sorting and found that the entire "hot" pile fit into ONE load. Hmmmmmmmmm..... Upon further inspection, there was an obvious size missing in the pile. There was NOT ONE pair of size medium fruit of the looms in the mix. NOT ONE! A certain nine year old has been wearing the same tighty whities for a week! So after questioning, he does admit to this, but is not even phased by the disgust factor in this. Now, I am not home at night during bedtime procedures, so a new plan was devised to try to remind ALL THREE males in the house that underwear really should be changed EVERY DAY and the eldest male may need to help remind his sons of this fact.

I wish I could say that is the only hygiene issue in the Wheelz Family. But, as I stated before, the boy:girl ration is quite uneven.

Case in point....the toilet seat. Why in the world do boys have such a difficult time with the idea that after you go to the bathroom, you PUT THE SEAT DOWN! Nobody wants to go into the bathroom and be treated to someone else's remnants. I even tried to give an allowance JUST for putting the toilet seat down. I tried to tie a weekly monetary reward to the procedure of putting it down, in order to train them, and the boys actually failed to earn the reward for two weeks in a row. Okay moms of boys...suggestions?

Oh, and while we're lingering on bathroom issues....washing hands. Running hands under water is RINSING, using SOAP is WASHING. And you gotta love walking into the bathroom while child is "washing his hands" to find that he is standing there with the water running so that mom thinks he's washing his hands, but he's not really doing it. And this is the same kid whose cuticles are bitten to shreds and hasn't had fingernails in four years due to all of the biting. He's almost ten and his fingers are ALWAYS in his mouth. How gross is that?

And hygiene is not the only issue. The other morning, strictly as an experiment, I decided to NOT nag the boys about getting ready for school. When I was in fourth grade, my mom worked nights and my siblings were gone by the time my alarm went off in the morning. So, at nine years old, I was waking up alone to the alarm, getting myself fed, dressed, lunch made and out the door to the school bus on time with no one else in the house at the time.

Now, I have severe issues with my past in regards to that issue, but the point to me is, if I could do ALL of that at his age, why is it that MY nine year old can say without any hesitation, "Mom, why didn't you tell me to get dressed when it is already 7:20?" Ummmm...Honey...if you are clearly able to tell time and KNOW that you need to be ready, then why not JUST DO IT!!! I am seriously thinking about actually staying in bed some morning and setting an alarm just to see if he can manage to get himself out the door in time some morning.

Now, I don't mean to say that this child is bad. He's really not. But it seems to me that if we don't get a handle on a few things around here, the teenage years are going to be VERY rough in the Wheelz Home.

And we might as well get a start on little brother as well, who will be bringing up the rear before we know it.

I know I am probably to blame for some of this. But as I am not home with the kids at night, I have NO control over their hygiene in the afternoons and evenings, as well as no control while they're at school. How the heck are these kids supposed to learn anything when I am NEVER home to help them? As not working nights is not an option, I am apparently in for many years of boys becoming more and more disgusting and mom having less and less influence.

Yuck!

It's a good thing they're cute. That just MAY be their saving grace.